The next book I am reading, as I continue my research, is “How We Age” by Marc E. Argronin, MD. This book is written from the treating physician’s point-of-view. It is also a good reference, even if it is not what I expected.
Dr. Argronin writes in a manner that most non-medically trained persons can understand. There are some references to specific studies, researchers, and diagnosis. His experiences are presented in a short story form. Individuals are introduced, their history s examined, and the interactions between them and Dr. Argronin are shared.
In fact, this book has so little jargon it is somewhat difficult to see it as a book by a medical doctor all. It is a very easy read, easily understood.
These are not the exact stories I am looking for either. That does not mean this book is not worth reading, on the contrary. This book is helping me understand better just how different each case of dementia is. Dr. Argronin shares stories of World Wars I and II veterans, Vietnam Veterans, housewives and husbands who have varying cognitive issues.
Dr. Argronin even discusses how the medical profession is sometimes prejudiced against the senior citizen struggling with Alzheimer’s, dementia, or other form of metal incapacitation. Perhaps my favorite example is Mrs. Nestor.
Mrs. Nestor’s assisted living facility nurse called Dr. Argronin urgently requesting an appointment for her. The nurse felt she was suddenly psychotic because she reported seeing bugs crawling everywhere, even biting her. When she arrived, Mrs. Nestor gave a very detailed description of bugs, where they crawled, and even showed spots where they bit her.
Dr. Argronin ordered standard medical test but still felt something wasn’t just right. He called her daughter and asked her to stop in for a visit at the facility. The daughter called and verified there were ants in her mother’s room. The nurse only saw Mrs. Nestor at meals and had not checked her room. (This is not a suggestion that all nurses are quick to assume.)
In my continuing research I am picking up bits and pieces of information that will help me as my mother advances in age and frailty.
